Thursday, November 28, 2013

Thankful

Today we spent Thanksgiving as a family....just our little family this year.  Each year I grow to appreciate this holiday a little more.  I love that it is simple and without all the hoopla that often makes holidays stressful!!  I also love that it involves eating yummy food and just spending time with those you love.  We usually rotate years of being at home and traveling to Utah for Thanksgiving.  I love love love the years we get to be with our family there and we always have the best time.  However, it is also nice to just be at home comfortable and casual and with lots of time to just relax:)  I have been really trying to spend today thinking about all that I have been blessed with ...and boy....have I been blessed.  During our meal we all shared what we were thankful for about each member of our family sitting at the table.  It really got me thinking about how although we have our flaws and many days I get frustrated about those flaws, each person in our home has qualities that make my life better and I want to focus on that......
Thankful for my Boo and her sweet sensitive spirit.....thankful that she shows us how to love by her example and constant hugs and kisses....thankful that she has a true love for learning and her constant chatter of thoughts she shares with me.....thankful for her cheery nature and her enthusiasm for life:)
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Thankful for my Eva Lu and her comic relief that she brings to our home with a laugh that is contagious .....thankful for her inquisitive mind and her desire to learn about new things.....thankful for her easy going nature and her ability to get over things really quickly......so thankful she is not a drama digger;)......thankful for those beautiful brown eyes of hers that melt my heart
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Thankful for my Bay Bug and her genuine goodness....thankful for her desire to do good and choose the right....thankful for the example she is to the rest of us.....thankful that she is good to ask if I need help and then her willingness to do it...thankful for that huge bright smile of hers and that she shares it with others:)
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Thankful for my Marko and his patience with me for 20+ years....thankful that he works hard both at his job AND at home.....thankful that he is so forgiving and treats me with kindness no matter how awful I am being.....thankful that he supports me in whatever I am doing....thankful for our walks and talks.....and thankful he shares this crazy life with me


Monday, November 25, 2013

Varsity

Bailee has completed a pretty grueling high school swim season.  I don't think any of us new exactly what to expect with a new coach and team.  We realized quick that we didn't know "hardcore"...even if we thought we did.  The coaches Bay had in Cody were no match for Coach Miller in that department;)  She was up at 5am every morning for an hour of practice before school and then another 2+ hours after school. Swim meets were every Friday and Saturday and if school was out....too bad ...practice was held.   Basically swim team was expected to be her life for two months.
 Bay worked so hard and halfway through the season, her coach asked her to join the Varsity team.  All of the other meets were at one of the 3 schools in Cheyenne, but Varsity traveled overnight to Gillette. She was pretty excited to go ...and a little nervous too. 
When it was all over, she was more than ready to give up those morning practices, but she really did have a great season with the Lady Indians.  It was truly a blessing that she hit the ground running with the swim team....it gave her a sense of belonging right away which helped with the transition.
Bay is first girl in the second row...bottom of the C
We are so impressed with her dedication and proud of the time she cut in many of her events.  Swimming is very personal for Bailee, her focus is on improving her own time and she cares vary little about where she places.  There are times during the season that I wish she had a little more "killer instinct" to win, but Bay doesn't need to be first to feel good about herself.  She has always been quietly self assured and does not measure her worth by her achievements....I learn from this little lady all the time.  We are so proud of the girl that she is ...in or out of the water:)

Sunday, November 24, 2013

Hockey Girl

Karsyn decided last winter that she wanted to play on a Hockey team.  We weren't crazy about the idea of investing in all the pricey gear and throwing her out on the ice without a little intro to the game.  She has spent a fair amount of time on the ice and really took to skating pretty naturally, but actually playing the game is a little foreign.  After moving to Cheyenne we were thrilled to discover the Learn to Play program.  Two nights a week she suits up and essentially shoots a puck around with the Cheyenne Stampede players.  
 
With the exception of a couple of weeks where they did some drills, I feel like we are paying for "open skate" in uniform.  So naturally I voiced my concerns which resulted in lots of understanding...but no changes on the ice.  Apparently, part of playing hockey is being comfortable moving around the ice:)  I totally get that, but I was under the impression that a LTP Hockey program would entail a little more "learning to play hockey"...silly me;)  Oh well, she loves it all the same and if nothing else she is becoming a pro on skates. 
 
 I guess we need to sign her up for a league and she'll learn the ins and outs of the game as she goes.  She looks like serious business anyway....one of only a handful of girls out there.
 We enjoy sitting under the heater and watching her do her thing:)
Our Karsy sure is one tough Hockey Girl....and she's so cute too!!!

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

a sad day

Emmrey came home from school on Monday feeling down.  She was sad to have learned from her teacher that Barbara Park had passed away.  I must admit it shook me up a bit too.  Barbara Parks books have been a big part of our lives.  I read the Junie B. Jones series with both Bailee and Karsyn and this summer Emmrey got really into them too.  We pick them up at the Library, listen to them on Road Trips, receive them as a surprise from Gram pa & Gram ma, and Emm can't wait to find all the ones Bay has in a box somewhere:/  Although we read them together, they are among some of the first chapter books that Emm can read all by herself.  She has also been listening to her teacher read them in first grade.  This is how we find Emmrey in her spare time during the last few months....


The moments of sharing a love for reading with my girls is a part of their childhood that I will always treasure.  I hope they do as well.  So while it is so sad that the voice of Junie B. is no longer physically here, the legacy will live on through little ones as they enjoy reading these delightful stories.
Yes...we are definitely fans of Junie B [the B stands for Beatrice.Except I don't like Beatrice.  I just like B and that's all;]

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Special Lady

My mom had a birthday this week.  In honor of her special day I made a list of 10 things I Love About Her.  So here it goes ....in no particular order :]
  1.  I love that she put so much effort into making Holidays fun....some of my favorite memories are wrapped up in those times.
  2.  I love that she always made our home a place I wanted to be.  A place I felt safe and comfortable and loved.  A place I didn't want to leave...even to go to school;)
  3.  I love that she was/is always in my corner.  Anytime she feels I [or any of us kids] have been done wrong, she defends us like the best of the mama bears.
  4. I love that she has always been such a good example of serving others.  I know that I have learned so much about doing for others by watching her.
  5. I love that she gave so selflessly to all of us kids.  She sacrificed a lot of her own needs to meet ours...we are so lucky.
  6. I love that she has a good sense of humor and can laugh at herself.
  7. I love that she can talk to a complete stranger and by the end of the conversation they have been added to her list of friends that will receive a birthday card.
  8. I love how she is not afraid to speak out about things she doesn't like and stand up for what she sees as injustice.  Many a time I was privy to confrontations between my mom and a stranger out in public.  Whether it was someone mistreating their child, or a customer berating a cashier, my mom always came to the defense of the helpless.  It used to horrify my when I was younger, now I admire it and I find it hard to ignore those same behaviors.
  9. I love that she is such a sweet grandma to my girls and has developed a strong bond with them, despite that fact that we have lived 500 miles apart since they were born.
  10. I love that she loves me and she lets me know how proud she is of me.  My confidence as a mother grows whenever she reminds me that I am doing a good job.  Then I have to remind her that I learned from the best :)
I could go on and on....really.  I consider myself very blessed to have this lady in my life and the fact that I get to call her MOM is just icing on the cake.  I LOVE YOU MOM!!

Friday, November 1, 2013

A Mummy and her Ghouls

So I had this grand idea last Halloween that I should dress up as a Mummy and the girls should dress as Ghouls...get it Mummy and her Ghouls=Mommy and her girls;)  It was too late last year {already had costumes planned}, so my "ghouls" reminded me this year of the idea and we decided to go with it. Well, I learned a lesson or two from this experience.  First, some ideas that sound amazing in theory are a little less amazing in practice.  It was really hard to figure out what to do for a ghoul costume. If you search online for ghoul, it pretty much results in ANY type of scary costume. We didn't want to be too morbid or gross and  I didn't like any of the prefabbed costumes I came across.  So I made these little scrappy tutus/skirts and found great ideas for doing faces and hair for the girls.  Sounded good in theory.  Kars decided she really wasnt fond of the idea of wearing a "cute skirt".  I even made hers less fluffy and frilly and she wanted nothing to do with it, so she wore a cloak instead.  All the makeup and hair ideas went out the window when we were rushing to get ready for Trick or Treating after our Mystery Dinner.  Frankly, we just didn't have the time to put into it.  Bay did her own hair and makeup, Kars would not have her hair big and ratty, and Mark got a little heavy handed with Emm's face makeup [I give him lots of credit for stepping in and helping so much...did I mention he had just finished wrapping the Mummy with great patience:] Although, I truly appreciated everyone's help....the finished product was not as I had envisioned or planned and it left me feeling frustrated ...initially.  Which leads me to my next lesson.....sometimes I focus too much on the "idea" and need to just enjoy the moment more.  I feel like I let the disappointment of having it not look "just so" get me grumpy at first.  Luckily I have these amazing little ghouls who remind me what is important and my discouragement soon turned to joy as I watched and listened to them enjoy Halloween!!  
 Our day began with these nostalgic cereals for breakfast.  My mom always bought these for us as kids, so they remind me of childhood.  You can't find them year round [at least I can't], so when I see them this time of year I snatch them up.
 Then it was off to school where parties were had and snacks were eaten.  Emm had a more traditional party in her classroom and Karsyn's building had a combined 4-6 grade party [there are only 4 classrooms combined] They did a costume fashion show and we served them Belgium Waffles with toppings.  I thought this was a great alternative to a bunch of treats...and the kids loved it.  This was the first time in 7 or 8 years that we had costumes at school.  At Sunset they had parties, but got away from the whole costume thing after Bay's kindergarten year, so that was different.  I helped at Karsy's building, so Mark went to Emm's class for a bit (no school party for Bay):  When I picked Emmrey up and asked her about her party, she said "apparently they don't even go outside for their parades, we just walked around the classrooms".  Oh man did I laugh hard inside [wouldn't dare laugh out loud, since she was totally serious:] cute little thing thought this costume parade we were talking about was the real deal outside in the street...ha
Once everyone was home from school and work we had our traditional Halloween Dinner.  We did a Mystery Dinner last year with Bailee's friends and the girls loved it so much I wanted to do something similar.  They selected 4 items for each course (only did 2 since we were on a time crunch).  The food all had spooky names so they don't know what they are getting ...unless they are so smart that they get it all figured out and know what to order when;)
 This is what they got eventually...just not all at the same time.  
Goblin Intestines=noodles*Bat Bites=meatballs*Ghoul Drool=sauce*Skeleton Bones=bread sticks*Dead Leaves=green salad*Monster Munch=fruit salad*Pumpkin Poop=Fizzy Pumpkin Drink
 Then we hit the streets for some good old fashioned Trick or Treating.  For the past 9 years we have done most of our Trick or Treating at the businesses in downtown Cody.  It's a fun atmosphere and when the weather is nice it is a great way to socialize and see friends and costumes [because its still light out].  But I have realized over the past few years that it lacks the authenticity of Trick or Treating.  The kids don't have to work for their candy at all.  They just file by in the line of kids and the nice employee drops a treat in their pail.  I really enjoyed the "old school" style this year. 
 We had nice weather, but it was WINDY so we didn't stay out long.  I am really kinda over the "let's fill our pail as full as possible" mentality.  It's really more about the experience and believe me the kids get enough candy!!  There are some really neat old houses in the area we live in.  Our street...not so much, but within walking distance are plenty.  We picked a street that is especially cool with big  historic houses that I have become quite fond of.  It was a real treat!!
 Of course, when we got home the pails were dumped, sorted, compared and swapped......some good math skills in use;)
So, yes this Halloween was different.  Different house, different neighborhoods, different people, different (lack of) community events, different costume results than envisioned, but it was not all bad.  In fact, most was really good.  The girls had fun all the same, and I am learning to focus less on the small things and more on what matters most(:
Happy Halloween!!!